As the Executive Director at Family SkillBuilders, Dezarae leads the implementation of overall strategy, resource development, and operations of the agency including working with the Board to create and implement a shared vision. She leads the staff to work together to create a positive impact in the community and ensure the highest quality of service to children and their families, engages in fundraising and community partnering, and manages the organization in a way that upholds our mission, values, goals, policies, and procedures.

Dezarae has often considered how her life might have been different if her parents had a Family SkillBuilder parenting consultant to support them when she was growing up. Her firsthand experience with Child Welfare and an unstable family situation motivated her to do what she could to make the experience better for other children. When she heard about the unique services Family SkillBuilders provides, she knew had to be part of making sure Oregon children are safe and healthy.

Dezarae earned a BS in Social Science with a focus on Social Work and Psychology and has worked in social services for eight years. Dezarae feels her greatest work accomplishment was overseeing the conversion of Family SkillBuilders to a nonprofit business, building a more diverse and flexible staff, and developing critical partnerships in the community.

As a Family SkillBuilders Supervisor, Lara leads, models, coaches, mentors, and collaborates with our Family Support Specialists while they work with participating families in the field, providing essential support to ensure child safety and guiding each team member to be valuable partners to parents.

Lara felt a true calling to join people on their journeys of healing, particularly those on the margins, and to utilize some of her natural gifts in service to others. She loves supporting our field staff as they team with families working toward their unique goals. It excites and encourages Lara to know that Family SkillBuilders is partnering with and supporting families with a trauma-informed framework to address their challenges and bear witness to their successes.

Lara has a Master’s degree in Marriage Couple and Family Counseling (MCFC) and has worked in social services for ten years. Her favorite activities are being outside -- hiking, walking, being in nature, sitting on the beach, swimming in the river, or just hanging out in the yard with family and friends -- activities that calm and rejuvenate her. Lara has a lifelong love for music and finds joy in playing her violin and making music with others.

As the Groups Program Supervisor, Alyssa is responsible for leading, coaching, mentoring, and collaborating with the Groups team members to ensure child safety and support exemplary service delivery.

Alyssa’s favorite part of working with families is seeing them reunited and watching parents overcome obstacles. She enjoys experiencing parents being teachable alongside their children. Alyssa has worked in social services for over 12 years and never grows tired of the opportunity to encourage people to see their value and receive validation for both their worth and their accomplishments.

Outside of work, Alyssa extends her care to her dogs to ensure they are also living their best lives.

As a Family SkillBuilders’ Supervisor, Colleen leads, models, coaches, mentors, and collaborates with our Family Support Specialists while they work with participating families in the field, providing essential support to ensure child safety and guiding each team member to be valuable partners to parents.

Colleen’s longtime interest in children’s mental health evolved over time to wanting to work with parents to support the well-being of whole families. She believes that when parents are supported and given tools to engage in nurturing parenting practices, not only does that impact children’s well-being but it often helps to reduce generational trauma and supports the emotional lives of the entire family system, building on strengths to support sustainable healthy family functioning.

Colleen holds a B.S. in Psychology, and she is a Certified Family Life Educator. She has worked with families for over 20 years in various capacities. Her first in-home work was as a caregiver for five foster and adopted children being raised by a single father. That experience gave her solid grounding in trauma and resilience as she learned from both the children and the team of providers working with them.

Outside of work, Colleen can typically be found at home reading, talking to family, or art journaling. She finds great joy in listening to music and dancing.

As a Family Support Specialist, Clarissa delivers Family SkillBuilders’ core services including one-on-one parent coaching and mentoring in the homes and communities of the families we serve, developing healthy family functioning that keeps children safe, teaching household management skills, and addressing safety issues for families with children at home or returning to the home.

Clarissa is passionate to support families because of her own experience needing support. She likes to coach and mentor others. Clarissa enjoys being able to help parents identify their needs and refer them to resources. She finds inspiration in having systematic knowledge she can share with people who face information, education, and communication barriers.

Clarissa has worked in social services for 13 years. Her background includes accounting, administration, and nursing assistance. She recently served as an Emergency Shelter Manager, and she feels proud that she made her staff and families comfortable in Shelter and was able to relocate families to safe homes through her resource connections.

Outside of work, Clarissa loves to socialize with others, clean and organize her home, spend time with her kids, cook and share food with others. She loves to sing and volunteers at her church, where she has served as teacher, camp counselor, secretary, and choir member.

As the Database Administrator, Krista is responsible for storing and managing data in the Social Solution Efforts to Outcomes (ETO) software to provide a seamless flow of information throughout the organization, considering both backend data structure and frontend accessibility for end-users. In the day to day, this position creates service and evaluation reports that guide the measurement of agency impacts, monitors system health and security, assures the ease of data entry, analysis, and reporting, and provides training and technical support as needed to fine-tune ETO’s effectiveness.

As part of the preceding agency management team, Krista helped shape the structure and processes of FSB and supported the succession plan including the transition to non-profit in 2021. She also helped spearhead our movement toward being a fully inclusive, diverse, equitable, and accessible service provider and employer. She has worked in social services for 16 years.

Krista quotes Desmond Tutu when describing the meaning of this work. “We need to stop just pulling people out of the river. We need to go upstream and find out why they’re falling in.” She believes that Family SkillBuilders’ mission is upstream work.

When not working, Krista enjoys listening to non-fiction audiobooks, being in nature, and spending time with family. She is passionate about continued learning in areas such as systemic equity, trauma awareness (E.g. historical and religious), permaculture, and women’s personal finance.

Mary retired from the Oregon Department of Human Services after 40 years of service. During the last several years of her career, she coordinated and administered programs for Child Welfare and Self Sufficiency in Clackamas County along with representing the agency in collaboration and community development.

Mary worked closely with Family SkillBuilders to implement in-home safety and reunification services for families and gained great respect for the work of the agency. Mary was excited to continue her collaboration as a member of the Family SkillBuilders board.

Mary’s passion for advocating, supporting, and working on behalf of vulnerable individuals and families has continued into retirement. Mary co-chairs the Clackamas County Children of Incarcerated Parents committee focused on community education and programing for corrections involved families and enjoys a delightful friendship with a 13-year-old girl she has mentored for three years. In addition, she is a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) for three families in the foster care system in Multnomah County and serves as board secretary for NAMI Clackamas. She is driven by the fundamental belief that children and parents love each other, and strengths can be found in all.

Mary loves entertaining, decorating, good movies and books, and time with friends and family, particularly her three grandchildren.

Jessica is a Research Associate and Project Director for NPC Research. Jessica serves as Family SkillBuilder' Board Secretary, responsible for all meeting documentation, planning, and ensuring all actions are in line with the agency bylaws.

Jessica joined the Family SkillBuilders Board because she is passionate about promoting child safety and wants to support the important work we do. She recognizes that Family SkillBuilders staff share her passion for the work and loves to see such selfless people working together to promote child wellbeing. Jessica is excited to see Family SkillBuilders grow, not just in terms of the number of families we are able to serve, but also moving into prevention service areas where we are able to provide services to families before they have an open case with ODHS.

Jessica earned a BA in Psychology, an MS and PhD in Human Development and Family Studies specializing in Child Development. She has worked in social service research for seven years.

Jessica loves outdoor activities including hiking, camping, backpacking, and walking her dogs. She also enjoys cooking and baking. Jessica volunteers as co-chair for the Clackamas County Children of Incarcerated Parents Committee where they help bring together community partners and volunteers to participate in community education efforts around children with incarcerated parents.

As a Family SkillBuilders Groups Facilitators, Tonya coordinates, plans, and leads group parent training to increase parenting skills including teaching core skills, guiding parent visitation with their children, modeling parenting skills, and providing activities, equipment, and supplies.

Tonya watched teen parents struggle to understand life and what healthy parenting may look like. She loves helping parents from all backgrounds and ages understand the beautiful connection between mother and child. Her passion comes from deep inside to help parents become the best they can be during both good and bad times.

Tonya has worked in social services, specifically supporting families, for 22 years. She loves being in the middle of everything right alongside her families, helping them to navigate through the trenches of the child welfare system and all other obstacles they may face.

When she has time to relax, she loves reading a good book and working on DIY projects. Tonya really enjoys home interior decorating.

The Intake Coordinator is the main customer service point of contact for Family SkillBuilders and is responsible for all referrals, optimal staffing, directing inquiries, supporting scheduling and data entry, and contributes greatly to quality assurance in reporting and follow up.

Jake comes to this work with a mission to build and foster community. He has worked to bring grace and care into this work to assist families, no matter their needs. His favorite part of working with families is the unique dynamics parents and children bring to accomplishing goals. His combined direct service and administrative experience offers the right mix for his role as Intake Coordinator.

Jake holds two BAs in Political Science and International Studies. He has eight years in direct service work with a focus on safety and social service. One of his favorite positions was working as a Red Cross Instructor to teach swim safety to families as well as Lifeguarding and CPR/First Aid courses.

Outside of work, you may find Jake on the many nice hiking trails of the Pacific Northwest or rock climbing. He is also a devout fan of the Portland Thorns and Portland Timbers and can be frequently heard cheering in the fan section.

Family Support Assistants support our Parenting Groups by providing transportation, snacks, meals, and emotional support to participating children and parents and assisting our Groups Facilitators with parenting training and group activities.

Elizabeth joined Family SkillBuilders with a strong belief that only by helping others can she help herself. She is moved positively by working with children and families. Her favorite part about the work is seeing the resiliency and joy within the parent-child connection.

Elizabeth has worked in the social services field in Portland Metro for 20 years. She received her MA in Counseling Psychology from Lewis & Clark College with a focus on children and adolescents and her BA in Psychology from Southern Illinois University.

When she is not working, Elizabeth enjoys stand-up paddle boarding. She and her dad built her own wooden board! She loves to run and take in the Oregon splendor year round. Elizabeth also enjoys weekly volunteering at her local library and enjoys hanging out with her family.

Family Support Specialists deliver Family SkillBuilders’ core services including one-on-one parent coaching and mentoring in the homes and communities of the families we serve, developing healthy family functioning that keeps children safe, teaching household management skills, and addressing safety issues for families with children at home or returning to the home.

Monet has always possessed a particular interest in helping marginalized groups throughout her community. While studying in the Family and Human Services Program, where she was surrounded by amazing students and instructors, Monet solidified her passion for helping others. She was able to acquire a sense of selflessness, acceptance, and compassion.

Monet’s favorite part of working with families is recognizing the various dynamics and foundations that make a family unique. This perspective creates an educational and open space for the families with whom she works, helping build an authentic sense of empowerment and acceptance for each individual.

Monet earned a BS in Family and Human Services and Ethnic Studies. One of her favorite jobs was interning for First Place Family Center where she supported houseless families and children throughout the community. Monet will always hold close the memories of sharing playtime, laughs, and creativity with the children as they were able to express their unique personalities.

In her free time, Monet follows her fashion passion, putting together outfits at the local thrift shop or mall. In quieter moments, you may find her curled up in a comfy space reading the newest social justice novel. Monet enjoys cooking, particularly dishes from diverse cultures throughout the world.

As the Office Manager, Leanne supports Family SkillBuilders’ mission by assisting staff as they work with families and children in crisis and providing administrative services to the agency including human resources, accounting, operations, development support, and resource acquisition.

Leanne joined Family SkillBuilders after working in the public schools for many years and seeing how children and families thrived when they were supported and mentored. She most enjoys finding resources for families and FSB consultants. Leanne holds graduate degrees in business and teaching.

When she is not working, she enjoys volunteering at Hoyt Arboretum, sharing meals, travel, and dog walks with family and friends.

Family Support Specialists deliver Family SkillBuilders’ core services including one-on-one parent coaching and mentoring in the homes and communities of the families we serve, developing healthy family functioning that keeps children safe, teaching household management skills, and addressing safety issues for families with children at home or returning to the home.

Michelle’s favorite part of working with parents and families is getting to know each family and its unique story. She enjoys identifying a family’s strengths and working together as a team to set goals and find ways to grow and evolve. Michelle knows everyone is capable of growth and change. She believes that it sometimes takes outside support to give us new tools and strategies to enact change. Michelle wants to be the person who comes alongside others to provide that kind of support.

Michelle has always held jobs centered around serving others, including education, recreation services and sales. She has volunteered for several years with the Portland Public Schools. Michelle has a BA in Social and Behavioral Studies and is working on her Masters in Social Work. She loves spending time with her children and their dog, watching sporting events, playing at amusement parks, watching movies, and swimming.

As a Family Support Assistant, Lesley supports our Parenting Groups by providing transportation, snacks, meals, and emotional support to participating children and parents and assisting our Groups Facilitators with parenting training and group activities.

Lesley is in this line of work because she loves helping people and believes in the importance of community and outreach. She has a passion for learning about people and assisting them in finding solutions to life's obstacles. Lesley also believes in lifelong learning and ever-changing solutions.

Lesley will soon complete her bachelor’s degree in Arts and Letters from Portland State University. Lesley is a Diversity Scholarship recipient. The Diversity Scholarship program promotes diversity and student participation in campus life through volunteerism and academic excellence. She was also a fellow for the Rural Organizing Project, a statewide organization that supports a multi-issue, rural-centered, grassroots base in Oregon. The Project works to build and support a shared standard of human dignity, with the underlying belief in the equal worth of all people, and the need for equal access to justice.

Lesley volunteers for College Possible, among the largest nonprofit college access and success organizations in the U.S. Their mission is to empower students to access higher education and thrive through college in the face of broader systemic challenges, understanding this can truly change the world. College Possible has confirmed for her that the college degree divide is influenced by race and income, not by talent or interest. College Possible provides a results-driven program that helps students from diverse backgrounds get into college and persist through graduation. Lesley brings her experience, desire to learn, and passion for equal treatment to her work at Family SkillBuilders.

The Leadership Coach and Clinical Consultant is a critical advisory role providing clinical supervision on mental health issues, crisis, addiction, and behavior management consultation, training and professional growth advice to our leaders and evaluation administration.

Brandon joined Family SkillBuilders after spending time working with youth on probation. He has always been drawn to supporting people and making a difference in their lives, whether professionally or as a volunteer or friend. He connects with people who have not received the support they need in their lives from family, authorities, systems, and institutions.

As Leadership Coach, he believes that relationships and belonging are the heart of what it means to be human and where we all learn we can trust ourselves, our world, and all the people in our lives. By showing parents they have value and that they can do things differently for their children than what experienced as children, we help them make meaningful connections as a family, meeting the needs of parents and children.

Brandon holds a Masters in Marriage, Couple and Family Counseling and is a Registered Marriage and Family Therapist Associate with the State of Oregon. Outside of work, he loves to build connections with friends and family, having meaningful conversations, hiking, or playing games. He loves to explore ideas with others who have similar interests so they can explore and learn together.

Family has always been an important aspect of Alex’s life. Her upbringing and personal experiences have taught her resiliency, empathy, and the importance of supporting others in her community. Alex has had the opportunity to work with diverse populations throughout her educational and career journey. Being able to learn, connect, and support families is what drives her to continue in this field.

Alex graduated from Portland State University with a BS in Social Science and a focus on Child, Youth, and Family Studies. She’s worked in the social service setting for three years and has had the privilege of working as a youth mentor and a Milieu Counselor. Fostering a safe and pro-social environment for children awaiting unification with their families has been one of the most rewarding experiences Alex has been a part of.

When she’s not working, Alex is most likely spending time with her family and two dogs. Alex also loves baking sweet desserts and watching reality TV shows.

As a Family Support Specialist, Guille delivers Family SkillBuilders’ core services including one-on-one parent coaching and mentoring in the homes and communities of the families we serve, developing healthy family functioning that keeps children safe, teaching household management skills, and addressing safety issues for families with children at home or returning to the home.

Guille’s favorite part of working with families is recognizing their need to be represented, to have a voice, and to be supported in the face of difficult cycles and changes in their daily lives. Family SkillBuilders gives her a platform to support the community and be able to provide families support in their times of need.

Over her six years in social services, Guille has enjoyed the experience of seeing families positively impacted by successfully keeping families safe and whole, out of the danger of narcotics, alcohol, domestic violence and with better management of mental health concerns. Being bilingual and bicultural, Guille believes she is privileged to use her knowledge of many Latin American cultures and provide the opportunity to highlight parents’ craft and work skills.

In her spare time, Guille volunteers for the Oregon Conference, supporting the children’s ministry, home and family, and the youth group.

Karen is the Executive Director of The Children's Center. Karen is the Family SkillBuilders' Board Treasurer whose primary duties are leading the preparation of the annual budget, reconciling accounts, reviewing all financial statements and activities, ensuring legal forms are filed on time, and reviewing the annual audit and presenting it to the Board.

Karen believes that helping to build strong families that support and nurture children is vital to the overall health and well-being of the children in our community. She admires the work done by the team at Family SkillBuilders and feels especially proud that they often work with families in their homes, where parents are most likely to experience success. She wants to do all she can to support the agency’s efforts.

Karen has worked in education and social services for 30 years. She began her career as a teacher and was a psychologist and principal in public education for over 20 years. Karen currently serves as a director of a non-profit that supports children and families impacted by child abuse or neglect.
Karen loves to be outdoors and spends most weekends hiking in sun, rain, or snow. She also loves to read, spend time with her dog, and watch movies and play games with her husband and kids.

Family Support Specialists deliver Family SkillBuilders’ core services including one-on-one parent coaching and mentoring in the homes and communities of the families we serve, developing healthy family functioning that keeps children safe, teaching household management skills, and addressing safety issues for families with children at home or returning to the home.

Brian was drawn to working at Family SkillBuilders because he recognizes that families are where we grow people, and those people determine whether the world works well or not. Ultimately, the success of families is vital to the world functioning in a healthy way. He loves watching parents and children from difficult or hopeless backgrounds discover the possibilities for life that they never knew were possible. Sometimes they thought “living the dream” of a healthy family was for someone else. But with the right support, they surprise themselves and discover it’s for them as well.

Brian has worked with families for more than 20 years, as a pastor, then as a parenting consultant. He loves reading, especially fiction, as well as gardening and hiking. He’s currently working on conditioning for his fourth Mt. Hood ascent. This time around he’ll be joined by his son.

Miriam is a Co-Founder at Kizimani. As Co-President of the Family SkillBuilders' Board, Miriam is a primary contact for the Board, presides at board meetings, helps create agendas, appoints committees, sets goals and objectives, and supervises all business and organizational affairs.

Miriam is excited that Family SkillBuilders will continue to do amazing work with children who find themselves in challenging situations through no fault of their own. She is equally delighted that Family SkillBuilders can provide the necessary parenting skills and support to parents involved in the child welfare system as they work at being healthy physically and mentally so they may care for their children.

Miriam worked as a Parenting Consultant for Family SkillBuilders for 12 years and is the cofounder of Kizimani, a nonprofit that does development work among marginalized communities in Kenya. Kizimani supports education and investment in small scale sustainable income-generating projects that break the cycle of poverty.
When she is not working, Miriam enjoys going out to coffee with friends.

As a Parenting Groups Facilitator for Family SkillBuilders, Adreanna coordinates, plans, and leads group parent training to increase parenting skills including teaching core skills, guiding parent visitation with their children, modeling parenting skills, and providing activities, equipment, and supplies.

Adreanna is passionate about making positive and long-lasting changes in the lives of others. Working with families fills her heart with hope for a wholesome future for our society. Adreanna's favorite part of working with families is the ability to watch them grow stronger and develop the tools they need to be successful, healthy, and happy. She also finds that kids are fun and adventurous, and she is always learning about life through them as well. Adreanna is motivated to utilize her compassion, empathy and skillset to impact her community in positive ways.

One experience that Adreanna really values was working with children in a residential psychiatric facility as a skills trainer. Her job was to identify lagging skills, then assist with building those skills. Her team focused on social, cognitive, communication, and emotional skills. Adreanna played an important role in supporting clients’ self-regulation through trauma-informed care – a powerful skillset she brought with her to Family SkillBuilders.